Hi. I am a married woman. To make things clear my husband and I have been looking for a couple for some time but it seems that either the male or female in a couple are iffy!! So we decided that it might be better to look for males and females separately. Hence I am looking for a male. Preferably married as that is likely to put less strain on our relationship. Im looking for a straight guy who is older than 48 as Im not exactly a youngster myself and dont want a toy boy. We have sons who are married and long since set up their own homes so can accomodate or travel. Any man that I meet and there will only be one must be willing and able to meet close to where I * * * * *. If or when we met my husband would be aware of the arrangements but would not join us. Im not exactly sure what I expect from this but the man must be smart looking courtious and able to attract my interest. I doo like foreplay but not prolonged. Other than that it depends on you.