Single, and that's the way I like it. I may not be young but I'm definitely not old so I want to enjoy my singledom for as long as possible!! I've been in LTRs and they just bore me to death. I need to be able to get out there and have fun! I'm sure I'll settle down when the time is right but that time is not now :) lets have a private party for 2. Clothes optional lol